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A Christian Response to LGBTQ+

I’ve been debating writing this post for awhile. This topic is sensitive and a lot of Christians avoid mentioning it. But I decided it was Pride month and finally time to share this post. So here is, from my study of Scripture and personal experience, the proper response Christians should have to the LGBTQ+ community.

First of all, I have to acknowledge that homosexuality and the sexualities commonly associated with it are a sin. This is seen in several places in scripture including 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10 (sodomites is often translated as meaning homosexuals). God makes it clear that anything relating to homosexuality is a sin. However, He does not put emphasis on it in saying that homosexuality is a worse sin than many others. Homosexuality is placed in a list as equal to covetousness, something we all are guilty of (1 Corinthians 6:9-10). I often see Christianity making homosexuality seem much worse than any other sin but really it is just sin. Just like lying and adultery is a sin. Someone in the LGBTQ community that is living in sin is no worse than a husband who is being unfaithful to his wife or a child lying to get out of trouble with her parents. What I am trying to say is that we are all sinners and no sinner is worse than another because of the type of sin committed. We as Christians should not sneer at someone who is gay because we are just as bad of sinners as he is.

For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God – Romans 3:23

So the way we should respond to the LGBTQ community is by seeing them as lost sinners in need of a Savior. They are in just as much need of a Savior as we are. We should open our hearts to the community in a way that will bring them to Christ and salvation through Him. That said, there is a specific way we should properly go about this. We do not want to appear to support the LGBTQ lifestyle but we also want to show them love as Christ would. So here is how I propose we do that.

  • Show them respect. That is just the basic way to treat fellow humans. Show that you care about them as a created being made in the image of God. Treat them as just another person in this world, not anyone different. Be their friend.
  • Don’t point out specific sins, just the fact that they are a sinner. If they ask if they are a sinner just because of their lifestyle then correct them. They are a sinner whether they are living that way or not. Acknowledge that homosexuality is a sin but it is also part of a larger multitude of sins. Show them that in Scripture.
  • If someone says that same-sex attraction is something they cannot control then acknowledge that. This can be the case sometimes because of how sin has twisted every part of our lives and how we function. But also remind them that SSA is still a sin and it is something you have to fight daily once you become a Christian.

Let’s respond with love to those in the LGBTQ+ community. Let’s respond the way our Savior surely would have. Because they are like us, simply sinners in need of a Savior

By Christi Darling

I am a 21yr old introvert just trying to put her thoughts out on the internet. A little bit about me? I am happily married to the love of my life, Luke Darling. I attend Bob Jones University and am pursuing a degree in Biblical Counseling. I hope to eventually run my own counseling center and write books and devotionals to help others with the struggles they face in life.

3 replies on “A Christian Response to LGBTQ+”

I really liked this post! One little thing though, SSA isn’t necessarily a sin, depending on how you define it. If SSA is defined as just the initial attraction to someone of the same gender, it’s a temptation to lust, just like the initial attraction to someone of the opposite gender. It’s only when you take that temptation and give into it when it becomes a sin. If SSA is defined as accepting and pursuing that initial attraction, then I agree with you that it is definitely a sin. Thank you again for writing this post. I’m glad you didn’t shy away from a hard topic just because it’s hard.

I would like to clarify that when I say SSA in this post I am referring to someone acting on the temptation to lust after someone of the opposite sex. There are a couple ways to define SSA and that is just one of them.

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